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Managing Your Mental Game


Yo PoolBum,

Can you offer one last tip?  check this out... I can go to my local poolroom alone, and set up the mighty X, or long shot pot drills, and sink them nice, do simple down the rail shots and drop them left and right. But when I go to play my uncle who's super good and his pool buddies are watching, it's like my mind freezes up, I start analyzing and my stroke feels frozen...

Any tips on this mentally?  Shots I can make 8 times in a row long table, I'll (sometimes) blow in a game, just curious if you can offer anything to help.

Brian (Southern California)

 

Hey Brian, All I can do is tell you is what I have figured out for myself. You can decide if it applies to you also. First, you should know that many players (maybe most) can execute shots better in practice then under pressure. I have seen plenty of finals matches played poorly by two excellent players because of the pressure. Mike Siegel is quoted as saying “The person who wins isn’t the one with the best game but the one who has the best worst game.” Don't feel alone in your search for an answer to this very common dilemma.

The advice of playing the table and not your opponent is fine advice and true in most situations but I don’t think it’s really helpful. I don’t believe that positive affirmations work either. At least not for me. In fact, any thoughts seem counter productive. What I do is try to focus on something in the present moment. For instance, I make a conscious effort to relax specific parts of my body. In particular, the parts that are critical to executing the shot which are the eyes, hand, wrist, elbow and my feet. The most important for me are my backhand and my eyes. When I “try” hard, my relaxed focus can become more of a strained concentration. When this happens I notice that I tense the muscles around my eyes. This can actually change the shape of the eyeballs and can slightly change how you see things, sort of like when people squint to see something better. So you may be seeing the shot a little different than it actually is. When you practice, this probably isn’t happening. Relax your brow and eye muscles.

Second, under pressure we tend to grip the cue more tightly. Even a slightly tighter grip on the butt can change our delivery of the cue (this is also true in golf and batting in baseball). Put your attention to your grip and make sure it is the same as when you practice. Next are my feet. I just put my attention in my feet and make sure I can feel the contact with the floor. Sometimes I wiggle my toes a little and allow the muscles of my feet to sort of settle on the floor. All of these things can be done in no time, now just part of my routine. Which leads me to another important point: Have a consistent shot routine. This can be a big confidence booster as well as a way to be sure that our set-up is on the money. If you approach every shot in the same way it will mean that you are doing exactly what you’ve done successfully thousands of times. You might be surprised how powerful this is.

It’s important to have all of the tactical decisions made (like where you will cue the ball and the track you want the cue ball to follow) before you approach a shot. This insures that you can deliver your stroke with 100% commitment without the need to think about it anymore. When I don’t have a firm commitment, for instance to playing position to the side or the corner I invariably end up on the 50 yard line with no easy shot to either (assuming it’s still my shot, lol). There should be nothing left to think about. I used to have a fairly persistent mental commentary going on in my head. To manage this, I would say to myself “shhhh” (in my head) as I relaxed to keep my mind occupied while I executed the shot.

Be sure to aim the shot while standing on the shot line back from the table and definitely before your hand ever touches the cloth. Then step into the shot and carefully lay your cue on the line you’ve chosen. I think about this as if I’m sneaking up on the shot. The shot should be aimed as soon as your hand is (firmly) on the table. Then (if you need to), make any minor adjustments in the position of your body around your cue- after all, you already decided that your cue is on the shot.

Your warm-up strokes are not for aiming! They’re just to make sure all of your moving parts are relaxed and on the line you chose so you can easily swing straight on the stroke line. The warm up strokes are also the time you can do the relaxing I mentioned.

Last but not least, stop at the cue ball before your delivery stroke. Confirm your aim here. If it still looks right, then do a relaxed and slow backswing. I use this backswing to sort of burn into my brain the forward track I want my cue to follow. And finally, the delivery through the cue ball. This motion can be likened to throwing a ball. Relatively slow backswing, smooth transition to forward swing then an acceleration through the forward motion, reaching the velocity you want as you reach the release point. You know how some girls look so uncoordinated throwing a ball. That’s because they try to get up to speed immediately without accelerating until the release point. It’s the same in pool, trying to reach the speed of the shot immediately will cause a very jerky transition from backswing to forward swing, which almost always degrades our aim and results in a “poke” instead of a “stroke.”

What I’ve realized is that if I do all of these things, it gives me the best opportunity for making the shot. What else could I add to increase my chances? By making these things routine, after a while you won’t need to think about them, you’ll just do them. That’s when you will have the confidence to allow the shot to simply happen without the interference of thinking. I figure either it will go or it won’t, so I might as well trust my preparation and shoot it like I believe in it. In either case, the earth will continue to spin on its axis and life will go on.

 

Excellent advice. I would add one thing. Many people, especially when about to make a difficult or important shot, get very tense and blow the shot completely. That's usually because they jumped up, or started moving before they hit the cue ball. You want to give every shot your best effort, but it's important to understand, and then remember, that your best effort isn't doing something special on this shot, it's doing exactly the same thing on this shot that you do on every shot. In practice you work to perfect your standard routine and stroke. In a game you want to just deliver it over and over.

Really good observation and advice. 

rail shots are sometimes hard to me or at least it gets in my head that they are. if i think about them ill miss

My 1st comment is that nearly every shot is more difficult when our thoughts get in our way. Just about any shot, no matter how "easy" can be missed when we over-think it or stress about what will happen or how bad it will look if we miss. Strange how our thoughts can make a shot look way more difficult than it looks at other times.
 
Here's what I have figured out about how to shoot an object ball that is frozen to the rail: put a little extra velocity into your stroke. When you cut a ball on the rail at a slow speed, the rail doesn't compress much and you have to hit it perfect to pocket the ball. However, with a medium to medium firm stroke the rail will compress. In addition to hitting it dead perfect, you can also hit the rail a fraction ahead of the object ball so the size of the target is actually bigger. As the cue ball pushes into the rail, the edge of the cue ball works its way to the "perfect" spot. It feels good to see the ball zoom right along the rail into the hole. Spend 10 or 15 minutes every day of focused practice until you get a feel for it and overcome the fear of the shot. I wouldn't be surprised if it becomes one of your favorites.
 
A lot of folks suggest using inside English to help the ball hug the rail. While this is true, if you rely on inside spin to pocket the ball what do you do if getting position requires something else? You're better off learning it with a variety of approaches.

 

 

I concur with almost everything you say, 95% at least. In almost 50 years of playing this wonderful game, I have a few observations. First - playing the table, not your opponent is very important. I believe the best players do this almost automatically - they know they are playing another good or great player and concentrate and focus on what they alone are doing. When I teach here in South Florida to good amateurs and league players, I constantly emphasize this point. I have seen many a pretty good player completely get out of their routine when they know they are playing a better player; just kills 'em and they have no chance. Second - routine is very important as you have so aptly stated. Part of that is playing at your normal speed. I emphasize this with those I help as well. You can't let a fast or slow opponent affect what you do. Sometimes, I'll just watch TV or something else until it is my turn again if my opponent drags around the table or is trying to gamesmanship me.
Mike in West Palm Beach (friend of Gary, your neighbor)

Thanks Pool Bum and the other comments as well. I've printed out pool bums reply and read it over and over a few times. I recently took a few lessons, no more than 2 weeks later in games with my uncle, he'd critize how i was playin so much better "before" my lessons, i have books, and dvd's on instructionals, and been at this about 5months like addicted, he's playing 45years and regulary runs out. After my lessons and the fact he knows i have all these dvds and i bring drills to practice, he's critizing how did i miss that easy shot, or why did i hit so hard, or the lessons made me worse, when actually i feel i'm doing much better. i think he expects me to run racks after a few dvd's and 2 lessons. Also noticed when i beat him straight up which i have usually a few times every 3hour session, he gets really mad and starts w/ comments. i'm opting to not play with him for a good long while. he demotivates my game, throws off my mental concentration when he tells me how did i miss that shot, after each easy shot i miss, and criticizes my progress. Totally demoralizing, and i will practice even harder now, hours each day. I found it negative... not sure if i'm over reacting. bottom line, it is not fun playing with him lately with all the negative comments and hearing the lessons made me worse and i was shootin better before.

Hi Brian,
Some people get so wrapped up in winning at pool that their sense of self can be undermined when they lose. Sounds like your uncle is threatened by any improvement in your game.  If you can, I would take his comments as a compliment... you're improving and he doesn't like it! I suspect you were hittin' them pretty good before he started ragging on you.
 
But even as a compliment, it can be disturbing when someone "sharks" us by trying to get us out of our game. For truly, even if it's not on purpose, that's what he's doing. Sharking doesn't only mean trying distract a player by moving around during their shot. It often takes a somewhat more subtle form of trying to get "in your head." It seems pretty clear why you felt so much pressure when playing him. Here are some other common examples:
 

  • "You have such an easy layout that my blind grandmother could run out." (This is to make us feel more pressure to succeed and self-conscious if we fail to run out)
  • "Wow, what happened?" (After you miss a shot, as if they could never miss that shot) 
  • "Why didn't you play that shot a different way (like with draw or right English) so you'd have better position?" And then they try to explain how they would have played it just to show you how much better/smarter they are. We all see things different and have different strokes so naturally we devise different plans to get through a rack. Besides, hindsight is 20/20 and it is so easy to run out from the sidelines.
  • Sometimes, getting mad and slamming their cue down can also be a shark. You respect your uncle's game and so would naturally like his respect also. His outbursts gets you in your head thinking about him and out of your game. With a head full of thoughts, it can be very hard to give each shot your 100% attention.

Here's a little story of what happened to me in a 9 ball tournament. I was playing a well known and respected player (I'll call him Sam) but I wasn't thinking about that. In fact, I had a clear head and was playing only the shot I had at that moment. I definitely was not thinking about anything in the future, like if I would miss or even about the final outcome: winning or losing. The tournament was a "rack your own," race to 9 format. I won the coin toss and then the first 3 games with 2 break and runs and a safety which got me "ball in hand." I ran out that rack as well. He won the 4th game.
 
As he finished racking, he looked up with a big smile and says to me, "Wow, at least you won't skunk me."
 
That was the best shark I have ever seen. My thoughts turned to the possibilty of beating Sam. My focus shifted from pocketing balls to winning. Long story short, my play took a drastic downturn. It was only after the match that I could see what had happened. I lost 9 -5.
 
I think your idea of not playing your uncle for a while is a good one. However, at some point you should again. Just look at it as great training for keeping your focus no matter what your opponent does. No doubt, there are many shark attempts in your future. There are lots of ways to fend off these attempts to get you out of your game. If your opponent does something that disturbs your inner peace/focus, take a break. Go to the bathroom, rinse your face and realize that what they are doing is because your game threatens them and they're afraid of losing. If my opponent is talking during my shot, I like to simply sit down. When they ask why, I just say, "I thought you wanted to talk and that's fine. I'll just shoot when "we" are done talking."
 
In all major events, opponents are required to be in their seat while the other player is at the table. In a few tournaments we are told to remain silent during our opponent's turn and even saying: "nice shot" is not allowed.
 
Don't forget that making changes in our game takes a while to integrate since at first we need to "think" about the motions involved in the new thing. Until it becomes natural we can see a decline in our performance. This is the normal learning curve. Expect this.
 
Sounds like you're doing well... at least your uncle secretly thinks so. Afterall, he now feels the need to shark you in order to increase his odds of winning.